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What does an orgasm feel like?

I was recently asked that question by a woman in her mid twenties. I was close to reenacting the scene when Mandy Moore describes the feeling of an orgasm to her mother played by Diane Keaton in the movie, Because I Said So. Then I realize it wasn’t a joke and this girl was serious. Then I was almost stumped. What does an orgasm feel like? It’s almost like describing the color blue or a tickle.

It feels blissful.

It’s a full-body wave of pleasure.

Still it wasn’t a satisfying answer.

Then just to be sure, I asked her if she’s ever experienced one. Turns out she hadn’t and she’s also never masturbated.

After an interesting conversation on Sex Education 101, I realized she’s not so unique. I’m sure millions of women are in the same boat. For whatever reason, they don’t masturbate and a high majority probably don’t experience orgasms. Well, let’s change that! If you’re a woman who doesn’t masturbate, make that your nightly assignment!

Female Masturbation Tips

  1. First tip: Get over your hangups! Okay, this may take a bit longer than one night, but it certainly is a necessary step. Masturbation is natural. Look at the way babies automatically touch their genitals. Remind yourself you’re a beautiful sexual woman. Repeat mantras until you believe them.

  2. Close the doors and get in a comfortable place free of distractions. Begin by touching your clitoris in a circular motion or forward and back. Focus on the feelings you’re generating and enjoy them. Let loose.

  3. Fantasize about something that turns you on whether it’s a boyfriend, hot celebrity, a woman, or anybody you want. The best thing is these fantasies are in your mind only. Nobody has to know what goes on.

  4. Use lubrication if you’re not becoming naturally moist. A water based lubrication is great because it’s easy to remove, it won’t stain the sheets, and all you need is a spritz of water to moisten it if it becomes dry.

  5. Use two hands to increase sensation. Use one or two fingers inside while your other hand focuses on the clitoris.

  6. Use a vibrator. I believe every woman needs a vibrator! They come in various sizes and shapes. Get one that doesn’t intimidate you. Or buy a bullet vibrator. They’re usually shaped like eggs and are perfect when focusing on the clitoris.

  7. Make it a magnificent orgasm by combining a bullet vibrator with the traditional kind. While the traditional vibrator is inside you, use the bullet on your clitoris.

  8. An orgasm won’t come if your mind isn’t there. If you’re feeling guilty or ashamed, chances are you won’t orgasm. That’s why the first step is so important. Once you’re comfortable and accepting of the fact that masturbation is normal and healthy, everything else will come.

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lailah

I'm a Reiki Practitioner, Advanced Theta Healer, and Sexual Empowerment Coach. I facilitate Goddess Parties and Sexual Empowerment Parties. If you have limiting beliefs surrounding your sexuality, contact me and we can work through them.

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One Response to “Female Masturbation Tips”

  1. michael mNo Gravatar on March 11th, 2009 9:18 pm

    I agree with you that many women are not assertive enough about having a right to enjoy their sexual feelings which can be a very healthy release. Half the women seem to know about it and half are ignorant. Those who want to learn will have their whole outlook on life slightly or deeply changed. Thos I have encouraged don’t want to look back!

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